9 Jul 2010
Harry came to us during the winter break and simply never went back. We had much younger children in our classroom and they thought that it was their daily duty to put their hands in to the fish bowl and prod poor Harry. So it was decided that it will be best, for Harry of course, to have him at our house.
Monday morning we found Harry belly up. We put him in a ziplock and placed him in the trash container. As a part of their continuing effort to understand death, there were a lot of questions from the little ones about Harry passing on. In spite of our sincere efforts to answer them, they are still a little puzzled. Chula seemed to understand that death is serious business and that Harry is not coming back as Harry ever. She even cried a little bit before sleeping. The all knowing Mieja consoled her saying that we could always go to PETCO and get another Harry. I am not sure if she understands or is overly practical.
Harry, you brought happiness to our family and in some capacity and we hope we did the same to you.
6 Responses for "R.I.P – Harry Belldrin Thomas(June28/2010)"
Its always tough losing a pet.
UTBT SAYS: I have never had a pet. I think, I had a fish when I was young. But it is easy to move on with fishes. They are not exactly interactive. The sense of touch invokes deeper attachment, me thinks.
Achacho.. Didn’t know he passed! RIP! So when is next trip to PETCO.
UTBT SAYS: Don’t know.
Harry is a nice name… hope you guys get another Harry soon…
UTBT SAYS: Don’t know. We had a trip to east coast to meet family. May be the girls are distracted, but the topic of new fish has not come up.
Do get another fish for the kids – and please share Mieja’s comments after seeing the new arrival 🙂
UTBT SAYS: Will chk with them. Whatever the girls and the fish caretake, A.K.A, the husband, decide.
RIP Harry !
Didn’t know his full name till now.
Do you plan to get another Harry for the girls?
UTBT SAYS: Undecided CA.
May his soul RIP!
Would like to know your take on getting a new pet.
UTBT SAYS: I don’t have a serious take on fish. Like I said, fish are more ornamental, low risk and people are not that attached. So whatever the husband and the girls decide. The husband is the one who changes water every five days and feeds fish every night EXACTLY at eight.
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