19 Jan 2011
All the ruckus in the virtual world about one womanβs parenting style, made me think of the sitcoms I used to watch, the sitcom mommies and how they dealt with their kids.
Bewitched, Cheers, The Cosby show, Dharma and Greg, Family Matters, Frasier, Friends, Fresh prince of Bel-Air, Fullhouse, Family Matters The golden girls, I love Lucy, Matlock, Home Improvement, I dream of Jeannie, Seinfeld, Sister Sister….
These were my staple sitcoms during my pre-baby-non-career-woman days. Family Matters was the first sitcom I watched in the US. YaadaYaada having arrived in the US a year earlier than I, was my TV guide. She sang praises on the sitcom about the African American family, the doctor husband, the lawyer wife, their five children. She meant the Cosby Show. I channel surfed and ended up watching Family Matters. It took me a good three episodes to figure out that it was not the Cosby Show! But when I did watch the Cosby Show, the one person who captured my heart, the one and only Claire Huxtable. I knew I wanted to be a mother like her – loving, accommodating but no nonsense, poised and sensible. I am still working on poise people, but doing good over all, if I may say so myself.
So here is a fun survey. Choose from the list ( Claire Huxtable, Jill Taylor, Rosanne and Mrs.Beaver ) your favorite. It will be open till Jan 24, 4.00AM PST. Have a good one folks.
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Edited to add: Reults of survey here.
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16 Responses for "Sitcom Parenting"
I totally try to be like Claire Huxtable. Just totally loved her and the way she raised the kids π Can’t say I am always successful but I try for sure!
UTBT SAYS: I agree! I try to be Claire and at times end up like Lucy :))
Claire all the way! We have watched Cosby show at our respective homes while on the fone so that we can watch it together! Remember those days. Total jobless, but somehow still thinking we are busy!
UTBT SAYS:
“Total jobless, but somehow still thinking we are busy!”
LOL and amen to that!
What about Debra from Everybody loves Raymond? I like how she is “real” – she gets mad at her irresponsible husband, grits her teeth at the demanding in-laws, knows she cant compete with her MIL’s cooking, but at the end of the day, she is mature enough to look past these things and live life being content.
I most identify with her. (Also, the husband has a super crush on her, I think π
UTBT SAYS: ELR…..brings back horrible memories TPL! *Walking away with an impish grin*
LOL! Trust you to put a fun spin on it!
From the descriptions, a bit of Rosanne and Claire Iβd like to think, except for the βelegantβ part!
UTBT SAYS: π Rosanne and Claire would be a perfect combination. I can certainly vouch for your elegance and I have never seen you. I think elegance come from how one carries themselves.
Don’t think I fit in with any of those. How about bookish, untidy, indecisive as to what should comprise dinner, but very much there for the kid, creative with her, always ready to answer any questions, no matter what they are, although a bit impatient with silly questions and behaviour, extremely protective of the kid, to the point that methinks she sometimes feels smothered? Any character like that?
UTBT SAYS: That would be me minus the ‘always ready to answer any Qs’ part π
When I am frazzled, I can answer only so many questions.
Otherwise I go in to the mode where I repeat the question multiple times aloud just to make sense of it and figure out how to connect the dots π
Good idea and a Tough one!
For this I will have to step back a little and evaluate myself critically.
Hmmm…..Although you have not given this as an option but I will go with Debra!
UTBT SAYS: Go Team Debra!
What the print lover said… I like Debra too!! I have watched the cosby show, the full house but not familiar with the other characters you mentioned. Also love the Janet ‘Jay’ Kyle character from ‘My wife and kids’.
UTBT SAYS: Another Debra fan!
Wish I were Claire. Just wrote about The Cosby Show. Easier to say what I am not, though!
UTBT SAYS: Just read the post and left a comment. We love Bill Cosby’s stand up comedy. He does a routine about going to the dentist. Cracks me up
Hey the wikipedia links didn’t work UTBT….
Fixed. Couldn’t make the links work from within the poll framework though.
Wish I were Claire! But agree with TPL…I LOVE Debra, she is very believable and therefore lovable. I’m like her somewhat!
UTBT SAYS: Didn’t know Debra had such a huge following.
Egad. This Claire creature seems sort of very high standards. Not me Iβm afraid π
UTBT SAYS: LOL! This is for your Choxie
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uYy1C7d0uLM
Me a huge Debra fan too …. and if I may add had enacted desi version of her in a play π
Oh btw… BP can totally relate to Raymond at times or for that matter, our own desi Raymond “Sahil Sarabhai”
UTBT SAYS: CA, I got to see you stage in action some day.
From your list, it would be Jill Taylor.
But generally a Debra fan.
UTBT SAYS: There it goes! Another Debra fan!
err… what about another option – Uma: confused, lost, chaotic, lazy, can be fun sometimes, can also be a monster at times, means well mostly…
UTBT SAYS: LOL Uma.
1)Debra- from Everybody Loves Raymond-
2)The mom in “The Middle”- again Patricia Heato
UTBT SAYS: I knew you will like Debra π
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