28 Oct 2011
On Diwali day, I did something I thought I would NEVER do! As a result of which child1 declared before she went to sleep, ‘Amma this is truly the worst diwali ever. I hope I make enough happy memories to forget this sad, sad day. It is the saddest and baddest day in my life. What is the use of celebrating if I can’t read amma?’
Yes! I told her she cannot touch or even look at a book for one more week. She needs to show and act like a six year old otherwise she will lose her reading privileges.
The reading, as much as I am proud of it, is reaching an extreme. Three volumes of Chronicles of Narnia in one day, forgetting the time entity and then whining that I didn’t take her to the park, I am not letting her meet her friends, not showing even 10% interest in making friends, always living in a dream world….. This is not just one or two days, has been going on for three months now and I have had enough of this.
Now that she has no fall back, she is making an effort to make friends. Otherwise the first sign of something that does not go her way, she would turn and walk to her book.
As for child2 she hopes she can irritate me as much, so that her reading privileges will also be revoked!
Two very different peas in a pod!
7 Responses for "How Was Your Diwali?"
Another friend I know has a 7 yr old as well, that one is obsessed with HP – reading all 7 over and over all day. Friend happy but also pulling hair out!
Better than being addicted to the telly and crappy Bollywood, no? Not to mention XBoxes and PSPs and a million other acronym-ed gadgets.
Will balance out, don’t worry.
UTBT SAYS: If you say so madam!
🙂
I think it is a wonderful state of affairs when the biggest threat we can threaten our child with is a loss of a right to read.!
That said, hugs, momma! And LOL at Meija’s hopeful efforts!
UTBT SAYS: Thanks for the hug S.
And Happy Diwali!
Sometimes you got to take these measures UTBT. Much against my choice I will tell my little one he cannot read when eating because that means dinner lasts for more than an hour 🙁
UTBT SAYS: 🙁
poor Chula.. you could have saved this for the next day of Diwali 🙁 and lol on Mieja’s antics…
UTBT SAYS: Oh the drama! She would have come up with an equally powerful dialogue the next day also.
I agree with Choxy … much better than Telly or video games … but I am with you on the threat 🙂
UTBT SAYS: 🙂
Reading is kind of an addiction at our household too. Sometimes I get so mad and threaten to cancel our library subscription because of that. I enforced the ban on Saraswathi poojai, when they couldn’t touch any of their books, but just for one day. And in my case, they don’t miss making friends either because they have each other and another entertaining toy, Lily. LOL at Mieja’s antics 🙂
UTBT SAYS: 🙂
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