14 Jul 2007
This post refers to two ‘she’s – toddler and the infant.
Let us start with toddler.
Intro: When we went to India 3.5 months back, I picked up couple of Curious George books and a Bob the builder book from the library and used these books to ‘contain’ her in the plane. The books were duly returned after we returned from motherland. There was no mention of the books, what so ever after that.
Today: This day will go down in history as the day I fainted in the library.
Toddler is hating home. She would do anything to not go home. The minute I pick her from day care it is, ‘Amma, no go home amma, no go home’. So I took up hubby’s idea and took her to the library, which is three blocks away from our house, instead of coming home. To make it interesting for her, I made her bike to the library. I walked along with her, infant in the baby carrier, guiding toddler and shoving the carton of chocolate milk in to her mouth every now and then.
Toddler was quite hyper, she kept chirping,’We all going to the libllalee amma?’ every few minutes, ran to the children’s section, and started browsing. I was busy huffing and puffing from the walk. Toddler gives me a book and says, ‘Hele amma, have CG goes to school. You have it amma’. I was still not paying attention. I thought that she is mentioning any CG book by the CG book she already read. I grab the book and before depositing it in my bag see that it IS CG goes to school! I froze. Then she picks up another CG and hands it to me, ‘Hele amma, have CG costume palty’ and it IS the right title. Then she also picked out Bob the builder’s birthday party book. She can’t read(…..I think). She must have remembered the books from 3.5 months back! If with my simple memory I could remember the silly things that happened 8 years back (and pick fight with hubby, “that’s what you said on Jan 31, 1999. I know what you meant”), what does this girl have in store for me???? I fainted.
Now to infant.
When she has her heart set on something, no army can stop her. She wanted to grab some one else’s key. The other lady distracted her, jingled the keys here and there and with a ‘Kaka ush’(Meaning: the crow took it and flew away) hid it behind her. Infant smiled wide and pitter pattered to the lady’s back and found the keys. I jumped to the rescue, distracted her squeaky with toys while other lady put her keys in her purse. Infant played with the squeaky toy for 5 whole minutes, threw the toy away and made a bee line for the table on which perched the purse which contained the keys, as if she was the one who put the keys in there! And here I am always seen with a piece of paper and pencil because I have to jot down every single thought that pops in my mind because a small distraction and I forget the while thread!
PS: Now that infant is walking strong and steady, asserting her presence with tantrums, preferences and wisdom(?!) that would put teenager to shame, I am obligated to promote her from infant-dom to toddler-dom. So there will be new nicknames for the kids. How is the PS connected to the post? Who said that it was? I just wanted to put my thoughts in writing before I forgot.
15 Responses for "!!She Remembers!!"
Wow that IS pretty amazing UTBT! I am in awe! ANd in many ways I feel good reading this…for there is hope that Sathya will remember his Patti next year. True? 🙂
Your infant is the cutest. I love the way you described her single minded purpose. She sounded like a CG herself.
hey.. why dont you put age tickers for the babies so we know how old they are every time we visit? And I am looking forward to seeing what you plan to call the two of them not that infant is being promoted!
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Tharini, I wanted to comment in your blog as well that SAthya has pretty good chance of remembering his Paati. Ashu did remember her Paati after a 4 month gap and that too when she was 7 months old. She took to her immediately. And then later with my dad and my FIL as well. It is really amazing to see kids do that.
UTBT – I was imagining the Infant going for the watch. Atta girl! And Im not surprised with Toddlers memory. She is one smart cookie. These days, Ashu has started saying “Naan marandhe poiten”. She saw Mr.Beans picture after a long time and did nt remember who it was. I told her its Mr. Bean. She says “Bean aa? Naan marandhe poiten”. Like mother, like… 😉
Tharini, like Boo says, they remember. Memory might be a little clouded, but it comes back! CG? She is a baby on a mission.
Boo, I still remember Ashu’s ‘Naan bayandhe poiten’ 🙂
MM, working on it. For now, Toddler is 30 months, infant is 13.5 months.
Isnt that wonderful, how these kids amaze us absolutely. I had a fainting with shock moment this weekend too, when brat went with us to the fish market and suddenly pipes up ‘crabs’ ‘prawns’ ‘goat’, ‘chicken’, ‘pomfret’ and the like….it was mensa level memory for this fellow…
impressive memory – both li’l Chula and li’l Meija!! and I love their names too.
Kiran, they do shock us when we last expect it dunt they??!
K’s mom thanks.
Chula and Meija ..nice names .. 🙂 Good to know you and your sharp little girls 🙂
Yes they remember ..they are good at it.
Thanks Swati.
amazing what they can remember!
yesterday at the libe (!!) my 2 yr old saw ‘the smartest giant in town’ (wriiten by julia donaldson and illustrated by axel sheffler). we have ‘the gruffalo’ (by the same pair) at home which has been read to her couple of times. as soon as she saw the ‘smartest..’ she said ‘gruffalo’. took me a while to understand that she had recognised the illustrator’s style and connected the two!
Namvor, welcome to my space and WOW! That is amazing how your two year old connected the books by just the illustrations. I am speechless! Does your toddler say ‘libe’? Cute, very cute.
thanks utbt!
i put the ‘!’ after libe bcoz your kid also remembered CG at the libe 🙂
my 2 yr old says library correctly 🙁 🙂
she definitely speaks more clearly than my 1st one did at the same age, i guess bcoz she hears her older sister and hubby and me plus all of her sister’s friends speak properly all the time. with my 1st one we always spoke like her – a lot of baby talk – we would adopt her way of speaking bcoz we found it so utterly cute 🙂 plus there werent any older children around.
Namvor, that is so true, with the first one, we talk a lot of babytalk. I am not sure how far apart are your children, mine are 15 months apart. Some one mentioned that when kids are this close, the second one take a while to start talking because the older one answeres questions for both the kids. Did you observe anything like that? Just curious.
hi utbt. my kids are 5 yr 1 mo apart!
but my hubby and his bro are also 15 mo apart and according to MIL the bro didnt speak till he was 2.5 years old (one smart guy,eh? got older bro to do everything 😉 )
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