I was going through my toddler-log from my pre-blogging times and this particular log caught my attention. I had made this log last year, a month before toddler turned two.

ACTION:

I was teaching toddler how to be nice, sweet and polite. “Baby, always say please when you want something. Say thanks when you get something from someone or when some one helps you. You have to say sorry if you hurt someone. It is nice to say welcome if someone says thanks to you”.

REACTION:

Toddler gets up every morning and says ‘Thenths(Thanks) pillow, thenths bantheth(blanket)’. I thought that she might be over doing it a little bit, but hey, being too polite is not going to hurt. But….if I hand her something that she had asked for she says, ‘Thenths spoon’ or ‘Thenths book’ instead of ‘Thanks Amma’. I tried correcting her, ‘Say thanks amma’, she looked at me and said ‘Veltham(Welcome)’ and walked away!

Same way if she knocks something on me she says sorry to the inanimate object, but not ‘Sorry amma’. If I correct her, ‘Say sorry amma’, she thinks I am telling sorry to her for some reason and says, ‘Uh-oh, thats othay(okay)’ and walks away!

So far ‘please’ is not being abused. She does say please when she wants something!