10 Nov 2010
….every single thing went wrong.
At least that is what I thought initially.
Every year, in our school we celebrate United Nations day with much gusto. Kids practice for couple of weeks. We make a list of countries every one of the 150+ children represents. They come dressed in the traditional costume of that country, sing a song for each country, place the country’s flag on the world map etc. Parents bring a meal and it is a huge potluck with at least 300-400 plates served.
This being the kindergarten year Chula had a part. So naturally I was pumped. Even before the school year began, I declared in the staff meeting that I am planning to take UN day off and attend as a parent. R was supposed ordered to come for the celebration.
Two days back R said that he has an important meeting scheduled and cannot make it to the celebration. Okay, at least I am going, I thought. My first sub cancelled and I had to find a second sub. I did and took a deep breath. On the day of the celebration, I found out one of my two colleagues had a serious emergency and will not be coming to school. As much as I was sorry for her, I was devastated because we will be out of ratio if I stepped out of the room. So I called R and told him that he has to do what ever he has to do and be at school to record the celebration. So R decided to work from home and attend the meeting through phone. Problem solved? Apparently not. He calls 15 min later and says that there is a power cut in our area and his working from home is not going to fly after all. So we decided to bundle up our class children and take them out to watch the celebrations. We got them dressed, booted and jacketed and went out 10 min after the celebrations started. Just as I was getting my breath back, it started to drizzle. How can we have our class out in the rain? But it so happened that one of our children went home with his mom, we were in ratio, my other two colleagues took the eight we had inside the room and I got to stay outside.
As I was recapping this out of ratio – in ratio, can go-can’t go status changes and madness that followed, in my head, I was thinking about the kind hearts at work today.
The colleague who had the emergency and had to take the day off, called in early morning and asked our receptionist to personally apologize to me. For her to think of me even when she was in great sorrow? I was touched. Then my other colleague and my sub, who came up with a plan and managed the class when I was outside attending the event. Though we were in legal ratio, we have two new children and two babies. I can only imagine the exhausting work they must have endured when I was outside enjoying my daughters. Not to mention, R’s meeting was cancelled in the last minute and he was also able to make it.
Now tell me gentle reader, ain’t I blessed?! Some where up there some one is looking out for me 🙂 As this thought floats through my mind the kids chant Gandhi’s peace prayer.
I OFFER YOU PEACE.
I OFFER YOU LOVE.
I OFFER YOU FRIENDSHIP.
I HEAR YOUR CRY.
I SEE YOUR BEAUTY.
I FEEL YOUR PAIN.
MY WISDOM FLOWS FROM A HIGHER SOURCE.
I SALUTE THAT SOURCE IN YOU.
LET US WORK TOGETHER.
Can’t help but dedicate this post for the people who felt my pain and worked together to help me.
8 Responses for "Of All The Things That Can Go Wrong…."
A wonderful post, UTBT. I’m going to bookmark it, and come back to it every time I start hyperventilating whenever something goes wrong with my routine. Just to remind myself that “woman, you can work around this disaster!”
UTBT SAYS: I need to bookmark it myself, considering how easy it is to lose cool. Some times it is a constant battle in the head, ‘Do I let my frustration out? Will it make me feel better?’ Vs. ‘Hold on to your head for some more time, you let lose now you will be dealing with double damage.’
Glad it all worked out !!
One must give to receive – the nice actions by those around you only shows what a helpful and kind person you are
UTBT SAYS: Yes, glad that it worked out. Thanks for your nice words.
What goes around, comes around UTBT. Am sure, you would have done the same if you were in the other person’s shoes and it is only fair the same happened to you. But yes, it is always nice to experience (and realize) the goodness in people and we should be thankful for it.
Such gestures re-affirms our faith in humanity, doesn’t it?
UTBT SAYS: That is true, I would have done the same if it were a co-worker. But in the past, in personal relations, I have been in situations that acts of good faith have been strictly one way 🙂 As I said it is hard to see every difficulty that comes your way as a stand alone situation and find the silver lining. More than getting to watch the UN day celebrations, I was glad that I kept my cool and was able to recognize the good things that came my way.
I am glad it all worked out and you were able to enjoy both as mom and teacher. I agree with PV and A-kay, definitely what goes around comes around. I loved the prayer, it is so universal and apt right?
So what did Chula dress up as?
UTBT SAYS: Both Chula and Mieja were dressed in pattu pavadai and sattai, two pony tails, bindi, necklace, bangles…. a typical south Indian girl.
Doesn’t it feel even more awesome when it neraly doesn’t work an dthen does?!
And LOL @ ordering, err..asking husband to attend!
UTBT SAYS: I have found through experience that asking the husband can be wishy washy. I ask and he thinks that he has yes/no rights. But in my head, ‘He must have volunteered. He didn’t. But I asked, so he is coming.’ Ends up in a classic fight scenario. So I order him ( V.E.R.Y selectively, of course he will disagree on the selective clause, but he is not reading this blog, so his loss), but when the order is issued there is no going back.
Glad it worked out, and wonderful to see the kindness. I guess gratitude and appreciation is always important. 🙂
UTBT SAYS: Happiness is a well trained state of mind, I am discovering Starry.
So glad it worked out …. as pointed by other readers, you must have earned the respect and affection from your colleagues with your actions ….
Sometimes I wonder, if the entire Universe conspires to see how much one can take stress … only to make it seem a joke when everything falls into place in the end. (did that make sense???)
UTBT SAYS:
“Universe conspires to see how much one can take stress”
Truer words were never spoken 🙂
Such a heart warming post. I needed it after the recent post of mine! 😉
UTBT SAYS: Aw… Boo. Every one has those Murphy days and it is hard to see the silver lining. UN day, I was determined not to let anything ruin my spirits. You must have seen me today morning, such an un-zen day and the less said the better.
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